A Long List Of Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend


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The boyfriend is the guy she’s dating.  He could be her husband one day. If she wants to keep the relationship going, she should know him well. She has to ask him questions about himself and learn what makes him tick. The questions below can help her do just that. They’re designed to help couples learn more about each other and their relationship. Relationships are all about communication. And what better way to keep the lines of communication open than by constantly asking questions?  So whether you’re just starting in your relationship or you’ve been together for a while, these questions should keep the conversation flowing. Use them to jumpstart your conversation, or ask your boyfriend some of these questions directly.

Questions About His Childhood:

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1. What were your favorite childhood memories?

2. What were your parents like?

3. What was your relationship with your siblings like?

4. What was school like for you?

5. Who were your best friends growing up?

Questions About His Beliefs And Values:

6. What are your religious beliefs or spiritual views?

7. What are your political views?

8. What are your moral values?

9. What do you think is the meaning and purpose of life?

10. How do you handle stress and adversity?

Questions About His Hobbies And Interests:

11. What are your favorite hobbies or interests?

12. What are your favorite movies, books, or TV shows?

13. What kind of music do you like?

14. What foods do you like?

15. What is your favorite travel destination?

16. What is something you’re passionate about?

Questions About His Relationship History:

17. How many serious relationships have you been in?

18. Why did those relationships end?

19. What are your thoughts on monogamy?

20. What do you think is the key to a successful relationship?

21. How would you define love?

22. What are your expectations for a relationship?

23. What do you think is the most important thing in a relationship?

24. What are your thoughts on open relationships?

25. What are your thoughts on cheating?

26. How would you handle it if your partner cheated on you?

27. Have you ever been hurt by someone you loved?

Questions About His Personal Life:

28. What are your plans for retirement?

29. What are your thoughts on aging?

30. What are your thoughts on death?

31. Do you have any fears or phobias?

32. What are your health concerns?

33. What do you like to do for fun?

34. What are your hobbies?

35. What is your idea of a perfect day?

36. What are your thoughts on travel?

37. What is the farthest from home you have ever been?

38. What is something interesting about you that most people don’t know?

Questions About His Relationship With You:

39. What do you think of me?

40. What are your thoughts on our relationship?

41. What are your thoughts on monogamy?

42. How committed are you to our relationship?

43. Do you see yourself married to me in the future?

44. What is your idea of the perfect relationship?

45. How do you think we can improve our relationship?

46. What are your thoughts on intimacy?

47. Do you like kissing?

48. Do you like cuddling?

49. What are your thoughts on sex?

50. What are your thoughts on our future together?

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These questions are just a starting point. Use them to jumpstart your conversation, or ask your boyfriend some of these questions directly. And remember, the most important thing is to listen to what he has to say. Pay attention to his answers, and be open to discussing anything that comes up. These questions can help you learn more about your boyfriend, and about your relationship. Use them to build a stronger foundation for your future together. Remember, the key to a successful relationship is communication. So make sure you talk openly and honestly with your partner about everything – including your thoughts and feelings on the questions above. Now that you’ve got questions to ask your boyfriend, be sure to keep the conversation flowing by following up with some of your questions, or by sharing stories and memories about your time together. The more you learn about each other, the closer you’ll become.

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